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My guy friend want to cut things off between us and I don't. I want to give him space but it is hard. I asked him if he wanted me to spend the night with him last night and he said no. I am mad at him from how he has been acting lately but I still want to be in his arms. I kept asking him why and pretty much looked like a sad puppy dog until he said come on and stay. He said he didn't want it to lead to anything because we need time a part but we still had sex. He is so mad that the chemistry was off. He told me that I didn't love him and I told him that I am in love so he said prove it. He asked me to get his name started. I told him I can't lie and say I will because I don't have any tattoo and don't want any. He seemed a little upset but I don't have to tattoo anybody name to prove my love for them. So my question to you guys is am I just playing myself by wanting to have sex with him when he is trying to detach himself from me. It's like he is playing hard to get because I went through his phone and we had a big fight. Now he acting like he is done but kind of playing with my feelings.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:33 PM on Dec. 7, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by m-avi at 7:35 PM on Dec. 7, 2012
Answer by kmath at 7:36 PM on Dec. 7, 2012
He's playing you. You have reason to suspect he isn't honest (guessing since you went through his phone) and he turned it around and is pushing you away. I'm guessing you have a feeling something is off and didn't find anything, so he is pushing you away and now you are sorry you didn't trust him.
From an objective POV, I would say let him walk and find someone you trust and that is able to love you the way you love them.
And don't ever get a man's name tattooed on your skin. EVER.
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