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2 Bumps

Have you ever?

Chased a guy that you loved? Or stayed with a guy that has cheated on you and lied to you multiple times? How did you get through?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:14 PM on Dec. 8, 2012 in Relationships

Answers (17)
  • all of the above. I stayed with a guy who cheated, he cheated again and I left.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 3:15 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • no and no

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:21 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • My husband did cheat on me in the past, lied about his drug abuse and other things, and I have stayed with him because I loved him enough to get him the help he needed.

    Answer by JenD_77 at 3:24 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • No, I wouldn't be able to get through that!

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 3:24 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • Chased, yes. Stayed, no.

    Answer by 3libras at 3:25 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • No and no.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 3:30 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • yes except he didnt lie multiple times. luckily he never cheated again so we've been together 2 years since, 6 years total

    Answer by lizzybee44 at 3:47 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • i stayed through by suffering on my own in a deep depression, venting to my friends helped a little but in the end i never felt like anyone cared enough. i dated someone else too and i even married my ex (not a marriage about love, more like a revenge spiteful-type marriage) but all because he cheated on me. i was so mad i knew it would piss him off without swooping to his level by cheating right back. so that got his attention then i got divorced 3 months later, was single 3 months (by single i mean ALL the fuck alone) then started seeing the man who cheated but never intimacy just talking like old friends...then finally a year later we got back together.
    some people have their own opinions but this is my story. i do recommend you have atleast some time in there for yourself. somehow relying on no one made me dig deep and now Im feeling like im stronger since those extremely hard times.

    Answer by lizzybee44 at 3:52 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • Once, and I was extremely naive and stupid. When I finally left him that was that and I've never been dumb enough to make the same mistake twice.

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 4:01 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

  • No but my best friend keeps letting his wife back. She's 41 and has a 24 year old boyfriend but still he'd rather not be alone.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:05 PM on Dec. 8, 2012

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