He's a jerk and you shouldn't put up with it. Stand your ground and no person should ever feel forced to do something they don't want to do. Unfortunately, there are some men out there who haven't been raised properly and think that it's a woman's duty to have sex despite the way he treats her. You are not a slave and not "property." Believe me, I know what you're going through. You can try to reason with him, explain how you'd want to be with him more if he treated you better, but most likely, he won't change unless he wants to change. Couples counseling might help, but from my experience, most people tend to go back to being the way they were originally out of habit. It sounds like neither of you will be happy because your needs and viewpoints are different. Time to make a plan to leave. True love isn't that hard. Being with the right person makes it easy. Sounds like he's not Mr. Right for you. Take care of yourself first!
at 11:10 PM on Dec. 11, 2012