Whats the situation with you and your boyfriend singular, I am guessing...........do you live together? Has he been around your daughter most of her life or is he a new boyfriend? If he is new maybe she is having adjustment issues, you need to sit down and discuss with your daughter what her feelings are, maybe she is feeling pushed to the side, if he has been a long term boyfriend maybe she hasnt bonded with him. Is her Father in her life? Maybe you need to consider that you should be the main authority figure, not the boyfriend, maybe thats where the problem lies. You wont know if you dont openly discuss this with her and LISTEN to her, be understanding, she still needs to come first, if she is acting out like that there is usually always underlying issues.............or has she always acted out? Sorry for all the questions but its a bit vague.
at 10:35 PM on Dec. 11, 2012