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What are the signs your DH is cheating?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:20 PM on Feb. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • When he stops paying attention to you, he stays out late, he doesn't answer his phone when you call him, He is always picking ou fights so he can leave, he keeps his phone away from you and gets mad if you touch it...etc.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:23 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • the biggest to me is trying to fight just to leave for the night. not wanting to have sex with you. though some cheaters still like to. money missing (if you live together) finding and hearing things that just dont add up.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:24 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • Also - when he is controlling, acts suspicious of you, doesn't like you asking him questions, doesn't like you talking to anybody...


    Answer by Anonymous at 12:55 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • There are the obvious ones, of course: Perfume or makeup on his clothing, girls calling/emailing him, etc..

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:01 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • As a Woman, you will just know.
    When God shows them to you, a
    Person can change that dose not mean they are unfaithful. A lot of time we as woman’s can be humble and submission to the sings and the truth (s)… cause we believe ‘that’ it could never happen to us. Deep in your heart, we know when the signs ARRIVE!

    Answer by Polo66 at 1:16 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • He said he had to work today but when I called his work I was told by his boss that he is not there. He said he had to work for three days striaght? Which he never does. Also there is money missing.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:19 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • I personally experienced this and this is what my ex did. 1. He keeps on buying new clothes. 2) I found a secret password from Telecom 3. Spending too much time outside 4. When he goes out he brings cash 5. Always checking phone and wanting to use phone 6. Suddenly there is hang-up phone calls 7. Wanting to find out your plans 8. He seem to cheat when you are out yourself. 9.Smell of perfume in his shirt. 10. Suddenly buying you gift and nice to you 11. suddenly distant. 12. Receiving mail like card then hide it from you and says it was junk mail. 13. He was he was out with male friends. 14. He says he is in the meeting or going for conference shows you the invitation shows up in the meeting for 5 minutes then leave. 15. He shows you a bording pass but secretly changed his flight and ask for new ones but will not tell you that. 16 When there is family outing he wanted your family to go first then he says he will follow.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • Most importantly when guys started to check the internet fating sites tthey have intension to cheat.

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:29 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • what the hell does that mean? internet fating sites? I'm lost here.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:13 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • some men are stupid, but the new other women have changed. they set up call times, so there is now bad calls.her # will be a guy name in his phone, email is too obvious. check the phone records if you can, see a # call alot, check the times, going to work, getting off work time, calls made then are her, separate phone plans,set up online to check the records, unless it is a pay as you go phone, your out of luck. check cpu history if not deleted. to see if dating site have been looked at. most men do this at work, or on their laptop if it is not locked. also watch to paychecks to see 40 hrs are not 38 hrs, small hours missing, then will be more hrs when more involed with her. gifts are kept at the office, texts are deleted, see if he is texting more, easier to cover up

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:41 AM on Feb. 13, 2009

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