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My 15 year old daughter use to have a boyfriend,she got rid of this guy and now claims she's a lesbian. A lesbian she met in juvenile detention,a person who's been in trouble with drugs and god knows what else. My daughter is on house arrest and can't have contact with any friends period. They both keep crossing that fine line with me even after I told them I was NOT going to break any rules and put myself in jeopardy with the noone! This bitch keeps saying and I quote "I was on house arrest numerous times before and noone will get in trouble unless you rat her out". This damn girl talks about how she CARES so much for my daughter and that I'm going to lose her as soon as she turns 18 and that my daughter has said she will never talk to me again. She says I will only make my daughter resent me more. She said that her grandma died and monday is the anniersary of it and she wants to be with my daughter, and that I should let her hang out and then she will follow the rules 100%. My body has been humming with anger and frustration,and this ache in chest won't go away. I have three boys who need me and I can't focus on anything but her. Something big and bad is going down to my once sweet and inncont daughter and it's coming with vengence. Not sure what lesson she needs or myself for that matter.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:22 AM on Dec. 16, 2012 in General Parenting
Report the texts and the fact that she was in your home. I wouldn't care if my daughter got in more trouble for breaking house arrest. I would inform both of them that I had no problem "ratting" them out if they broke the law. I would tell my DD I loved her but I won't be emotionally black mailed by either her or her girlfriend.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 9:32 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by wendythewriter at 9:25 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Your DD sounds like she has a lot of problems. Jail might be the safest place for her and her baby right now. Good luck, it sounds like a lot to deal with.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 9:35 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by 2autisticsmom at 10:19 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by gdiamante at 10:42 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by Anonymous at 9:25 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by wendythewriter at 9:37 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by RyansMom001 at 9:59 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by RyansMom001 at 10:04 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 11:04 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
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