I'm a stay at home mom with a 1 yr old and an 8 yr old that I home school. Anyone who is a stay at home mom knows how much work there is.
My husband goes to work from 3am to between 12-2 pm
In my opinion actions speak louder then words. I want to spend more time with him during the day. He is off 3 days a week. And just like most moms would agree my best time is after the kids are tucked In and I get that last hour or two. I like to spend that laying in bed talking to him, or when the mood strikes being physical.
From 2pm when he comes home all the way to 9pm he is
Sitting on the couch watching tv
Playing video games
Very rarely do I get help, I chase kids out of the kitchen when I'm cooking and put them on his lap and say watch them and 5 seconds later there they are. He says he will do his own laundry but I say no it's fine I just want help, he says np but nothing ever happens
I'm up from 6am-11pm non stop
I don't know what to do to get him off his ass, I love what I do but not when I don't get any time with him. I can't do anything when he is home bc I will start resenting the fact that I'm cleaning the house while he sits on his ass
Answer by Dardenella at 11:15 AM on Dec. 16, 2012
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