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To the woman who thinks it is OK to hit her husband because she thought he was going to hit her.

1) I was abused by my first husband. I've been there done that. I left his ass. I don't think hitting him back is OK. Especially not in front of the kids. Even more so when you are in a car. You could have killed somebody.

2) He didn't hit you. You just felt threatened at that point. Now YOU are the abuser. Which means you aren't any better than the man that hits a woman.


You want to call me out in public Go ahead. I'm not afraid of a dumb anon.

I didn't hide behind anon in my post and I won't hide behind it now.

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layh41407

Asked by layh41407 at 6:44 PM on Dec. 16, 2012 in Relationships

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Answers (22)
  • I love you.
    FreeForAll

    Answer by FreeForAll at 6:44 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • Damn.
    DusterMommy

    Answer by DusterMommy at 6:46 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • I'm kinda waiting for this to get removed.  blowing kisses

    layh41407

    Comment by layh41407 (original poster) at 6:46 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • ^^ Me too.
    DJDNY

    Answer by DJDNY at 6:46 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • Very true. I missed the original post though, is it still up?
    skinnyslokita

    Answer by skinnyslokita at 6:48 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • Mine first response was to FFA's answer. I ♥ you
    DJDNY

    Answer by DJDNY at 6:48 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • Is op still p and you're damn right, she's the abuser now.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 6:50 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • eye rollingYeah,she should have waited for him to hit her first.......

    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:53 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • Now I am getting dumb ass messages in my in box saying I support men abusing women.

    No, I don't. I also don't support women hitting me.

    I also don't think hitting back is OK. Just leave. Don't get in this tit for tat shit. Just leave. Other wise it becomes a he said she said.
    layh41407

    Comment by layh41407 (original poster) at 6:55 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

  • Copy/paste those messages, be sure to include the sender!
    FreeForAll

    Answer by FreeForAll at 6:56 PM on Dec. 16, 2012

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