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Ok so I've tried doing this on my own but I can't figure out what to do; I've asked friends but they were no help either. I have this boyfriend who I constantly break up & get back together with. At first I honestly thought I was in love with him but now I don't feel the same, I mean I still love him but it's not the same love it once was. & when we broke up recently my best friend a guy reveled his true feelings to me & I feel the same. This is where it gets complicated I can't seem to let go of my boyfriend every time we break up maybe a week later after he feels me moving on he give's me a sob story & me being the sap that I am feels sorry for him & take him back. & everything is ok for a little while then I get the feeling of wanting to be with someone else again. I haven't ever cheated on him. I just don't want to be with him anymore & then I do want to be with him & I ask him can we take a break so I can asses my feelings and he'll say something along the lines of no if you leave were not getting back together. then I just sit back & still want to leave. & recently me & my best friend have been getting closer & I know I've already emotionally cheated on him & I feel bad but what am I supposed to do?
Do any of you lovely ladies have words of wisdom for me please no bashing
My bestfriend understands the situation and said he was willing to wait on me to get it together to be with him.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:16 AM on Dec. 18, 2012 in General Parenting
Answer by charlotsomtimes at 11:18 AM on Dec. 18, 2012
Answer by m-avi at 11:19 AM on Dec. 18, 2012
Answer by LostSoul88 at 11:21 AM on Dec. 18, 2012
Break up with him and let him go. Tell him that you don't feel the same way about him that you once did, and that no amount of breaking up and getting back together is going to change that. This isn't healthy for either of you and you both need to just let go of one another. Realize that there was a reason you broke up. Not wanting to be alone isn't a good enough reason to get back together.
Answer by QuinnMae at 11:23 AM on Dec. 18, 2012
Answer by Dardenella at 11:25 AM on Dec. 18, 2012
Answer by louise2 at 1:14 PM on Dec. 18, 2012
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Not sure what to do to fix this- or let her sort it out on her own