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How can I calm my 4yrs worries that we are expecting a boy not a girl, she really wants a girl

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Asked by dmully at 2:30 PM on Feb. 12, 2009 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • My oldest was the same way. She was the oldest and then we had 2 boys after and I remember her being so upset. I ended up taking her to the dr with me and she asked the dr why we had a boy coming and not a girl and the dr told her God just planned it that way. It seemed to ease her mind a little bit.

    Answer by gemgem at 2:38 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

  • Tell your daughter about all the advantages of having a little boy, that she can take care of him now and show him all about her life and teach him. And then they can be the best of pals and when he grows up he will take care of her.

    Answer by wishbook at 3:46 PM on Feb. 12, 2009

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