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I have dated my boyfriend ever since my youngest child was only 2 mos old. He knows my other children ....my question is he has never gotten any Christmas gifts for my 2 older kids.....actually he has never paid for my kids at anytime...I have paid for his kids and he has 5 of them. Opinions???

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bunnytx43

Asked by bunnytx43 at 11:02 PM on Dec. 18, 2012 in Relationships

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  • sounds like a HELL of a catch!LOL!
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 11:03 PM on Dec. 18, 2012

  • Dump his cheap ass.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 11:04 PM on Dec. 18, 2012

  • Not good for your kids, imagine how it makes them feel. Curious how long y'all have been together
    txnmomof4

    Answer by txnmomof4 at 11:05 PM on Dec. 18, 2012

  • Stop paying for his kids.
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 11:06 PM on Dec. 18, 2012

  • Does he buy presents for other people?  Honestly my DH is terrible at buying presents, but he'd give the shirt off his back if some needed it.  If he does buy gifts for other people, I'd ask him why not my kids?

    RyansMom001

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 11:31 PM on Dec. 18, 2012

  • WHY?? He's got it made!
    PMSMom10

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 12:20 AM on Dec. 19, 2012

  • Oh wow, I think it is time to move on girl. I know he might not be your kids dad, but still a gift for your kids would be thoughtful, and he should know that it's you and your kids, not just you.
    vall11

    Answer by vall11 at 12:23 AM on Dec. 19, 2012

  • why are you still dating him? If he isnt going to care for your kids that are a part of you. Arent your kids more important than him?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:55 AM on Dec. 19, 2012

  • A man with 5 kids says enough. He already has too many to pay for why would he want to pay for more!?!?!?!?!
    maecntpntz219

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 1:38 AM on Dec. 19, 2012

  • How old are your older kids?
    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 9:06 AM on Dec. 19, 2012

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