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My fiance said daaaaaamn to a girl that shes cute rigbt in front of me. rude? im over it just asking

Has your SO ever said it outloud. u think its plain rude and im fycking gorgeous srrious im just saying. why refrence a sexual hint right in front of girlfriend would you dump him for that if you were with him 6 years?

no you wouldn't. so what the hell else do you suggest I do

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Asked by lizzybee44 at 6:18 PM on Dec. 20, 2012 in Relationships

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  • get over it maybe ? he isn't blind.

    Answer by gwen20 at 6:20 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • eye rolling you've never commented on another man?


    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:22 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • Of course I wouldn't dump him. Unless he cheated on you with her, it's unrealistic to assume he's going to go girl blind simply because he's with you.

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 6:23 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • get over know you think other guys are cute too. if you're that insecure with yourself get therapy

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 6:23 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • What else was said? If he said he was interested in her for something more serious than I would know what we had was not going to keep going or needed to be worked on.

    And why 6 years as a fiance?

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 6:24 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • Nope. Wouldn't dump him at all. At least he is telling you and not hiding it. It's a dude thing. They look. Heck, we do too at times. No biggie.

    Answer by texasgurl33 at 6:25 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • oh dear, is this for real, so I guess you have never thought any other dude was cute.

    Answer by Princess_s21 at 6:25 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • Go buy "Magic Mike" on blu-ray and play it while he's getting home.

    Say, "what? He's cute!"

    Answer by staciandababy at 6:25 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • i would never in a million years think he would say that. all he says is im beautiful, why would he say this to me. i told him of course think it, but dont say it dumbass

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 6:33 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

  • I dont think that is a big deal, you shouldn't be jealous over him saying someone else is cute. It shows that you are not confident and possibly lack self esteem, it also shows that you don't trust him. If you get this heated over a minor comment, after 6 years of being together you should probably re-think if you want to get married.


    Answer by sheloveearth at 6:33 PM on Dec. 20, 2012

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