My dh told me that he hates me. We were having a disagreement, and lately it's been kinda rough. He's not normally like this but he's been bringing me down, saying things to me like "fuck you", "you're such a nagging wife", bla bla bla and now, "I hate you". I'm not ready to be done. We've been together for one third of my life, and I know he is going through a hard time right now, but he's taking it out on me. BTW he did say sorry, and that saying that was harsh. DUH! If we didn't have kids, I'd be out the door yesterday, I"m not going to be treated like that. I want to be loved. But I don't want to break up my family. We have been to counseling in the past, and it didn't really help. The counselor basically got paid just to listen, no tools or anything were given to us. Do we try to find a new counselor? How do I deal with this pain in the meantime?
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