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How would you have taken this...:( ?

My sd21 was not going to buy gifts for her brother or sister if my dh did not say you better come over with something...

My dh is their father just different moms.

I can't believe she did not include them on her X-mas list :( She's known them since they were babies now they are ds11 & dd9

I just feel bad for my babies, they don't know but I do :(

Sadly venting... I wasn't expecting anything but what about my kids, her brother & sister :(

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:50 PM on Dec. 23, 2012 in General Parenting

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Answers (10)
  • 3 cheers for Dad speaking up.
    Sarah961

    Answer by Sarah961 at 9:22 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • Honestly, I would have taken it with a grain of salt. Presents mean nothing to me. If she came over to see me, I would be more than happy. I don't accept gifts from my children unless its handmade. Why the issue with material possessions? Just be together as a family and enjoy each others company.
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 9:04 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • She's only 21, perhaps she didn't have enough money for gifts?
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 8:56 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • I was thinking also she may not have enough money for gifts.
    Did she give them gifts in previous years?
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 8:58 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • I'm sorry. 21 year olds can be such selfish brats.
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 8:56 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • hugs
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 8:52 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • 21 year olds are so into themselfs that I would not worry about it. Just do not give her a gift. Make it even.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 9:09 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • So she's their step siblings and have no ties to them?
    SaraD1989

    Answer by SaraD1989 at 9:20 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • She lives with her mom and brother she got them gifts for sure.
    What I am saying she did not INCLUDE my kids on her list they were last on her mind :(

    I'll just have to blow it off...ugh!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:35 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

  • She lives with her mom and brother she got them gifts for sure.
    What I am saying she did not INCLUDE my kids on her list they were last on her mind :(


    Honestly, I think you are sounding a tad selfish & entitled right now.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 9:43 PM on Dec. 23, 2012

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