First- How does a man stay with a woman who has repeatedly cheated on him. I know this guy who has been cheated many times. His GF cheated with 2! of his coworkers, but he stays. They have 2 kids together and he says 1. he doesnt want to just up and leave because he feels he is failing his kids by leaving the mother because she is unfit 2. his parents were not together and doesnt want that for his kids. 3. if he leaves he will be homeless because is finishing his degree right now and unemployed. he is 32 and working on his mba full time.
She recently told him that she is love with the coworker and he has to deal with it. With all that said, he is seeing someone and wants to get serious but limits the 'relationship' because his kids mother. he goes on dates with the other lady , stays the night and talks to her many times through out the day. he has told her he wants to leave the house but needs time. when he met the girl he is seeing now , he told her he was single. come to find out he is not.
he 'ended' the relationship with his kids mother and told the girl he is seeing that he is no longer intimate with her, but they sleep in the same bed each night. he tells her its hard to not sleep with the mother of his kids but he is disgusted with her and its over.
how truthful do you think he is about not sleeping with the kids mother?
given what i said, do you think he will ever leave the kids mother?
his whole family pleads with him to leave her but he is still there.
He is a close friend and i cant begin to comprehend his lifestyle and why he puts himself through all that. he appreciates my advice but is still there.
what do you think about this situation?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:42 PM on Dec. 25, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Dec. 25, 2012
Answer by PMSMom10 at 8:51 PM on Dec. 25, 2012
Answer by ohwrite at 8:53 PM on Dec. 25, 2012
Answer by PMSMom10 at 9:15 PM on Dec. 25, 2012
Answer by Dardenella at 12:08 AM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by winterglow at 4:51 AM on Dec. 26, 2012
I wouldn't be involved with a married man, even if he tells me he is separated. You're only hearing his side of the story. Given what you said he is probably only staying for the security of a roof over his head and for the sake of this children. Whatever the reason he should not be starting a new relationship when this one is clearly not over.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:01 AM on Dec. 26, 2012