just feeling down since my daughter and i left her dads house to come home to bed and she throws a huge fit because she misses her dad and repeatedly tells me how much she hates me and wants her dad (she is 4 btw) and beyond the stress of it I do feel extremely bad that she doesn't have us both with her at home. I just grew up in the best house with my parents and I want her to have that warm loving feeling in her home and we don't. Not like how I used to feel it. Today I didn't even feel like her mom being over at her dads house for xmas she doesn't even act like she needs to listen to me because its her dads house, she doesn't want to play with me I think because when I come over it usually means she has to leave dad and it's the same when he picks her up. I just feel horrible. Does it get better? it's been 2 years and I don't even know if she remembers when we all lived together.Answer Question
Answer by Ballad at 12:41 AM on Dec. 26, 2012
i split up my family.:'( i took my kids & moved back 2 utah because my husband was being abusive & turned out 2b total piece of crap. my oldest told me she hated me every single day. i was getting by on my own but it was tough & it wore me out so i needed a break and my husband wanted 2 take the girls 4 a visit. i never intended on keeping them from him, i just wanted a happy home that was safe, so i agreed 2 the "visit." he was supposed 2 bring them back 2 me in six weeks, but instead him&his mother decided 2 keep them & sue me for child support.
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