There is so much going on within our family right now, and it's really tough to make decisions.
Your advise would be appreciated, as it's tough to set priorities right now...
1. Marital problems have caused my DH and myself to live separately under the same roof most days of the week. We may hug eachother, make love, and then we fight again. He hates the concept of councelling, and won't go with me. Even if we went, he'd scream and insist on him being perfect, and me being the touchy one. We could drive the Councelling person crazy, I'm telling you !!!
2. I haven't seen my elderly, sick mother for 2 years now. She was scheduled to visit us in January, but I am having second thoughts, as she won't be happy to see that my DH and I fight so often,...
3. My DH and I are undergoing fertility treatment. Love is still there, we do want children, but in reality, some trust issues won't go away... Not sure if it's right for us to try to conceive, if we can't get over our problems, yet our age won't let us postpone this decision...
4. my right hand/arm and occasionally leg feel numb for over a month now... The symptoms resemble MS, or Mini-stroke, and my doctor feels that we should do something radical to check this, starting from MRI, and moving towards more painful and challenging medical tests...
With all this going on, I find it so hard to prioritize what to do first, starting from my mom's trip.
Would it be better to wait for a month or two till my health issue is resolved, or should I just confirm her visit, due to her old age? But if she visits and sees all this misery, won't it be worse ?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:13 PM on Dec. 26, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by Ballad at 6:33 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 6:37 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by missanc at 6:38 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
If you marriage is so bad? Why are you still trying to have a baby? Are you doing it because even if the marriage fails, you still want the baby and raise it alone?
I do not know your life. But IMO Stop trying to have a baby with this DH of yours.
Your health is more importants then getting pregnant right now. Sense you are having other health issues Getting pregnant would not be a good idea. Truthfully you should divorce this pain in the ass. Your health might improve. Then you can have a baby on your own.
Answer by louise2 at 6:59 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by jeanclaudia at 7:00 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by NewMamaBoo at 7:18 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by CaliBlondeGirl at 7:32 PM on Dec. 26, 2012
Answer by 3libras at 7:56 PM on Dec. 26, 2012