I have a 7 yr old daughter and have been married for 8 yrs. My husband and I work totally different schedules and rarely see each other awake & alone. Our intimate relationship is gone! I feel like his roommate or his Mom! I take care of everything while he sleeps and works. I feel unappreciated, unsexy, and just in a rut! I love him to death, but it is like having 2 kids more than being married! Help?