It always seems like you end up with ones with serious issues. People who just want to take,and don't want to give
I've gotten the "listen to me bitch about my ex/baby daddy endlessly"
"Can you babysit/lend me money/take me somewhere and have me not pay you back either with money or a return favor"
"make plans and then not show up or have an explanation"
"never have money to hang out,but have money for stupid shit,and expect me to pay for them time and time again"
I wish I could put out an ad or something for a nice,decent,well rounded woman with minimal issues to just go shopping and to lunch with. One that I could just laugh and share with and not have to bring up all the negativity.
It doesn't help that I'm technically on the autism spectrum and have many sensory issues. Basically,i'm a little weird. My threshold for BS is a little lower than other's.
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 2:17 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
I make friends easily but never close ones. I am very charismatic & have no problem talking to ANYONE. BUT! I do NOT have any VERY close friends. I keep friends at a distance for the same reasons as you were saying. They become too needy & imposing. I am willing to help others that help themselves but I also do not take any shit from anyone. I never ever ask people personal questions & I will not answer people who ask me.
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