First I need to tell you some background about us. I have premature bone loss, 2 fractured hips that have metal holding them together and a 11 month daughter. Now there are days I can't even walk and other days I"m fine. I live in 24 hr pain. I have a hard doing stairs also. Now on my bad days my fiance does everything while I stay in bed, on my good days he'll get a break and I'll do what I can and take care of my daughter but for carrying her. Also her bedroom is a flight of stairs below us.
The other day my fiance asked if he could spend the nite at his friends house alone while I stay home w the baby. Now the friend only lives 20 min away. And my fiance doesn't drink either so he can't say it's for safety. He can't understand why I'm so upset and why I got mad. He said noone else would and I could spend a night at a friends. Wll for one I wouldn't even want to.
So am I over reacting?
Answer by sunshineemommy at 8:20 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
Answer by virginiamama71 at 8:23 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
Answer by Ballad at 8:23 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
Answer by missanc at 8:23 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
He knows you have problems and he want to do this? If my DH said that to me, and I was you. I would want to know why is it so important to stay the night over their? Kind of suspicious to me.
I would tell him, " You are and adult, do what you want" I would inform him he is acting susicious.
Answer by louise2 at 8:24 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
Is he wanting to spend the night as in sleep there or is he wanting to stay up all night playing video games, talking, watching movies, etc?
Answer by JeremysMom at 8:25 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
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Answer by feralxat at 8:26 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 8:27 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
Answer by tessiedawg at 8:29 PM on Dec. 27, 2012
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