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im 9wks pregnant and it hurts after a few minutes i dont know what to do i want to keep him happy

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Asked by danielle393 at 5:40 AM on Dec. 28, 2012 in Relationships

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  • After a few minutes of what?

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:57 AM on Dec. 28, 2012

  • At 9 weeks your body has not changed significantly enough that sex should be painful. Talk to your gynecologist. And trust me, there are plenty of other ways to "keep him happy". If he's a tool and insists on sex, even though it's hurting, you might want to re-evaluate what kind of guy he is, and if he's someone you want to raise a child with.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 6:07 AM on Dec. 28, 2012

  • You are pregnant - he should be more concerned about keeping you happy! Have you told him that it hurts? What was his response? At 9 weeks you shouldn't be having any issues, but things are NOT going to get better over the next 7 months! :)

    Answer by missanc at 11:15 AM on Dec. 28, 2012

  • Seriously? Do not do anything that hurts. Call you doctor and discuss it with your doctor.

    Answer by booklover545 at 11:33 AM on Dec. 28, 2012

  • Agree with all ^^

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 1:06 PM on Dec. 28, 2012

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