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He lies about things she asks pertaining to school. when he visits with his mother h lies to her. We are trying not to drill him about what goes on at with parents when he returns. But instead he voulenters information just to stir things up and make trouble. I'm guessing so everyone wll be mad at each other an not talk. Even though it's not working. He's stealing goodies and sneaking things to and from school. He's getting bad grades, etc. We are trying to not let it escalade into worse behavior. Hei taking advantage of thefact tht his parents are split up to get away with poor behaviorAnswer Question
Not sure about the whole back story on why he's away living w/ Gma, but from the sounds of things, this whole family is in need of some serious counseling. GL
Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:09 AM on Dec. 28, 2012
Answer by funlovinlady at 8:13 AM on Dec. 28, 2012
He sounds angry and maybe he has a right to be, but the adults in his life need to get together and come up with real consequences for his actions. They also need to demonstrate to him how much they do love him, not just say it but activily engage with him in activities that will bring them together.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 8:44 AM on Dec. 28, 2012
He is acting out because his family life is disrupted. By him doing bad things it is his was of looking for attention. I REALLY think he should be in counseling NOW! Start with calling the school Psychiatrist. Explain the family situation & see what help the child can get to manage his upset. He is too young to understand why he is feeling this way & what to do about it. The adults around him are not paying attention to this need. He needs help ASAP before he spins out of control. I feel bad for the poor kid. I cannot imagine how he feels with his Mother & Father dumping him on Grandma. How would YOU feel if you were him. He need LOVE :(
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:30 AM on Dec. 28, 2012
BTW, It shocks me when I hear other responses to beat him. WTH? His life is in tatters so you recommend inflicting pain on him? He is NOT a dog, he is a human being & the result of what the adults in his life have done to his well being! How sad! Help him! There should be a law against this!
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:33 AM on Dec. 28, 2012
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