My boyfriend and I got into it yesterday. I caught him smoking in my car last night. I've only had this car for 2 months, and my number 1 rule was no smoking in it! Well when I confronted him for smoking in it, he denied it. Although it smelt like an ash tray. Yuck! The argument escalated. Not only did k catch him smoking in my my new car last night, that must mean that he's BEEN smoking in it the whole entire time. I'm paying for this car, this is MY car. So I was yelling at him, trying to explain to him how it's not right, it's disrespectful , he can't be trusted, and all that other stuff. Well he didn't feel like arguing because he ready wasn't feeling good, so he asked me to drop him off at his place. As I was driving to drop him off, I kept talking. He starts playing music on his phone very loud! It pissed me off! He hears me crying, and how upset I am, yet as usual he shows no dang remorse!!!!!!! None what so ever! So I pulled over at parking lot and told him to get out!! It was around 7 at night, and 30 degrees out. He called about 3 times to get him. After he stopped. So about 2 hours later, I called to check on him. He didn't answer. I literally called 112 times. Left voicemails , and text messages! I feel bad for doing this.... But he pissed me off! This isn't the first time he's done some shady stuff to me like this, and showed no remorse!!
Should I leave him alone?
Was I wrong for this?!
Asked by Anonymous at 2:01 PM on Dec. 30, 2012 in General Parenting
Answer by staciandababy at 2:07 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:07 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 2:11 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
Answer by virginiamama71 at 2:19 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
You caught him, as in seen him smoking in your car. Or just smelt the smoke smell? My DH smokes outside. Even though he smokes out side. He still comes in the house smelling like cigarette smoke. That being said. Did you find any ashes in the car? Signs of the cigarette in the car?
Answer by louise2 at 2:19 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 2:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
Answer by virginiamama71 at 2:26 PM on Dec. 30, 2012
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