I've always had a rocky relationship with my mother and my father,ever since I was born I was unwelcome. Not sure why she didn't just give me up,I think my dad really wanted me. I know that she use to stand me in front of the television and point out all the pretty girls and would make me feel like I was hideous,I was ugly,I was a dog,to my own mother. I should've been a boy she couldn't think of any names for me so she named me after her mother. I always got made fun of at school I hated going to school,and I hated being home.
I was strangled and beaten as a child,and my arm was even broken because I couldn't clean the cupboards fast enough,she says it was an accident,I say bullshit. When I was molested for several years I thought I had my mothers love then and I thought things would change,one day she straight up said that she thinks I enjoyed it,being molested by my dad. How could a mother say that to her child? I've been trying for years to be a good daughter,sure I don't go to her house or call her often but I do try to invite her and my sister over for the holidays. I had her over for christmas dinner and thought everything was okay. I got a text from her last night bitching me out cause I didn't answer her phone calls and her complaining that the only time I do anything with her is at 4th of july christmas and thanksgiving,which is bs cause I have called her and had meaningful talks on the phone with her. We recently went over there to her home christmas eve day. I'm being accused of being snotty to my sister, when she was doing the dishes I came in and thanked her and took over because she was taking a very long time,and I wanted to do it myself so it would get done fast so we could enjoy the evening. My sister is 30 yrs old but she acts like she's really young like she can't think for herself. I've tried to get my sister to get a job or go back to school anytime I say anything to her she runs to mommy and then mommy calls me and bitches me out. I toldmy mom last night that I think she better not have any contact with me,and I mentioned things in my childhood that she's done because she still to this day hurts me even when I try really hard to make her happy,nothing I say or do matters. My kids and husband think she's insane and she is,she'smentally ill. My brothers girlfriend says I need to go to her house and tell her how I feel about everything and tell her why I haven't forgiven her of the stuff she's done to me. And to lay it all out to my sister as well cause she is acting just like my mom. I didn't want to start the new years off this way fighting with my mom and sister butI feel in all honesty that we need to go our seperate ways. Really not sure what would be best. A part of me really wants my mom to be a mom,sweet,compassionate,understanding,and patient,the part of me says I want nothing to do with her at all.
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