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Has your sex drive ever adult content

just wildly fluctuated for no apparent reason???

There are days when my dh will touch me, and if I think he's getting frisky, I literally want to kill him!!! Then, the very next day, I could throw him on the floor in the middle of the mall and jump him... It goes back and forth constantly. Ive never been like this before. We have very enjoyable sex, and a good relationship.

I have a stressful job, and Im tired a lot, but he's pretty cool about it. Its really not him, its me. I just turned 49, and Im wondering if this is hormonal - menopause related? Any of you ladies think so? My DH is being pretty cool about it. But its freaking me out. One day Im a homicidal maniac if he touches me, the next day Im a horny nympho... I dont get it.


Asked by Nimue930 at 6:54 PM on Jan. 3, 2013 in Health

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Answers (8)
  • 49!!! Yes that is it alright. Have you stopped or has your period changed yet?


    Answer by louise2 at 6:56 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • No, I think I missed the whole"horny" phase.... To me, it's just ick! LOL!

    Answer by m-avi at 6:58 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • Ha,I was just about to ask if you were in your 40's-50's
    yeah,sounds like menopause might be knocking on the door soon

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:02 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • Hmmm nah. Unless alcohol is involved I am pretty not interested all the time.

    Answer by staciandababy at 7:46 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • Louise, I had to have a total hysterectomy at age 29 so Im guessing at the menopause thing... I made an appt with my doc to get my hormone levels checked...

    Comment by Nimue930 (original poster) at 7:03 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • Well I'm usally fair game until the week before my period then it's like really don't even look at me. Idk why I just figured its hormonal stuff.

    Answer by skinnyslokita at 7:40 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • are you on certain meds?

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 9:16 PM on Jan. 3, 2013

  • No, no meds to speak of....

    Comment by Nimue930 (original poster) at 11:43 PM on Jan. 3, 2013