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Adult Content Question! Does anyone else... adult content

...not orgasm when having sex? I only orgasm when having oral sex. I'm so jealous of the women that can orgasm just having sex.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:26 PM on Jan. 4, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (17)
  • We need PartyGal for this one! I have no problem in that area!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 12:29 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • never have. i need clit stimulation from oral or manual.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • Do you use toys in the bedroom? I've never had a problem reaching orgasm while having sex, but we use lots of toys too. Would your husband try wearing a cock ring with a small vibe attached? (I think there is one Trojan makes now like that). It provides clitoral stimulation while you're having sex and should do the trick.

    Answer by missanc at 12:32 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • I have the hardest time having an orgasm from oral but I always orgasm from sex.

    Answer by funlovinlady at 12:37 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • I can orgasm both ways but, honestly I've discovered that it has to do more with my partners skill level: some has been awesome at vaginal sex but, suck (no pun intended) at oral, some are skilled at oral but, not so hot at sex. And, of course, my level of desire for them, at the time, was also a factor.

    Answer by 3libras at 12:43 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • missanc: Yes, we have toys. We have a cock ring but it doesn't have a vibe. Going to have to look into that one. Thanks!

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:10 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • He gets me off with his fingers with a G spot orgasm or 2,or 3,and then I can come again during intercourse. I've never really had good ones from oral,and cannot have them if it is intercourse only.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:52 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • No. I no dot orgasm from either. Ever. I gave up years ago. Both just hurt. No medical reason.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:30 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • I don't know, been so long ago I don't remember.



    Answer by Natesmom507 at 2:43 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

  • I also have issues with intercourse. I have to have clitoral stimulation for me to get off. It is very rare if I do get off from sex alone. I do use y own fingers while he is having his fun just so I can. Also, I have fond tht if I a on top, I can control where and how he enters me, and it helps with y own pleasure.
    We've tried a cock ring with a vibe, and all it ended up doing is tickling. lol.

    Answer by spiritguide_23 at 4:58 PM on Jan. 4, 2013

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