My fiance's family has been pretty crappy to me over the last four years. Mostly, his mother. At first I was forced to believe that she just really disliked me, then when I broke down and moved out of the house he allowed his divorced mom to move in with us, his divorced male friend moved in, and I saw she was just spiteful. After I left now a year, I came to a realization that I need to be the bigger person and try to bring everyone together for the sake of my children. My fiance however wants me to jump right in and allow his mom to start babysitting for us. Might I mention she threw a knife at me when I was nine months preggo.
I wanted to start with dinner meeting up at chuck e cheese places like that here and there once a month (his parents are divorced and SHE does NOT get along with her ex) . I wanted to start out with his dad but he got mad and said no I have to do them at the same time, because his dad will brag to her. She was nasty to me (fake police report, stressful pregnancies, changing locks, breaking furntiure, relationship problems with my fiance) it is not as easy to get back on the saddle.
He is now like don't worry about it "i don't really like them anyway" and I feel like he's trying to be sarcastic and throw it in my face. His best friend that moved in after I left came to me and apologized beacause my fiance's mom always spoke so bad of me and made me seem like the worst person ever and he believed it, until he moved in and saw it was really her. I'm trying to do the right thing for my kids and live life the way God wants me to.
Where am I going wrong with this. I did it with good intents.
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