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Where's the urge???

everything i've been told and read says romance should feel good and i'd enjoy it more...but since my pregnancy i'm just not in to it, doesnt even feel all!!! I just can't seem to ever get in the mood and it hurts. Whats goin on? I wish i could enjoy it cuz i miss it but once things get goin its gone.

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:54 PM on Feb. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • i hear you loud and clear im going through the same thing maybe once the baby comes you be back in the mood or if you already have the baby maybe you guys can do something speacial to help you get back to feeling it again

    Answer by mommyofone0724 at 1:47 AM on Feb. 13, 2009

  • Romance hurts?
    Or sex?
    Because the two are very different things.
    If you're not into it, then you need more foreplay. If it hurts, use lube.

    Answer by Liyoness at 4:29 AM on Feb. 13, 2009

  • Mylast pregnancy hurt and unfortunately it didn't get better until several mos after the baby was born. No amt of lube or anything else helped. Hopefully, you will not have this problem, but if you do, I understand.

    Answer by KARRIEMARIE at 7:00 AM on Feb. 13, 2009

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