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WYR be in a lonely marriage ...?

Would you rather live in separate bedrooms and mostly apart from your husband,
or divorce and migrate to another area with a colder climate, but a new life with no fights?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:16 PM on Jan. 5, 2013 in

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  • I've already been in a lonely marriage and I'll take the cold anytime. To be honest the cold is warmer then a lonely marriage.

    Answer by baconbits at 10:56 AM on Mar. 11, 2013

  • I think it depends. Are we living mostly apart and in separate bedrooms because we don't love each other or because we're constantly fighting? I know couples who sleep in separate bedrooms because of their opposite work shifts and don't want to disturb the other when they come home in the middle of the other person's sleep cycle. Or they sleep in separate bedrooms because one partner snores excessively loud.

    If life just has us leading mostly separate lives, but we're still happy and treasure the time we do have together, then I would most definitely stay. If we're apart because we hate being around each other and constantly argue, then divorce.

    Answer by dezava at 1:04 PM on Apr. 8, 2013

  • It all depends.

    Answer by m-avi at 10:26 PM on Apr. 11, 2013

  • I would not stay in a loveless marriage.

    Answer by Fairymom32 at 12:01 AM on Apr. 29, 2013

  • Divorced and moved on.

    Answer by Sillylins at 12:39 PM on May. 28, 2013

  • Rather work on the marriage first.

    Answer by morebee7 at 2:06 AM on Jun. 7, 2013

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