so my dd (20) is going in on thursday to get an new IUD (paragard) long story on why she is switching from mirena to paragard, anyway to what happened, my dd's df got called into work for the rest of the week, and understandably he cant take off that day because they need his help on this job, he was going to go with her just in case she got dizzy or blacked out from getting her paraguard put in. so she calls me and asks if i could take thursday off to help with monkey (my grandsons nickname) and to drive her to and from the OB and if i couldnt she'd just ask amanda or clara.
so i tell her id ask my boss and call her right back, my boss of course says yes (shes an ex ob) and i call my dd back and say i can help for the day but i have to leave at 6 to be back in time to take a shower ad go to bed....then i ask why she didnt ask her father (im 2 hours away from her but shes my only baby and i dont mind helping) she told me this "i asked him the same thing i asked you, if he would mind taking me to the ob just in case im not able to drive home after.he told me to put on my big girl panties and figure this petty fucking shit out myself, when i told him the nurse on the phone told me its normal for women to pass out while getting paragard put in he said he didnt give a fuck and to figure this shit out on your own." wow now i really remember why i divorced him
anyway so my question to you is, if your dd called and asked you or your husband if you would mind helping out that day,would you say yes and gladly go help or would you tell her to figure it out on her own?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:16 PM on Jan. 7, 2013 in Parenting Debate
Answer by sarasmommy777 at 4:23 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 4:26 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
I would try to out my DD if I were able to. Could she have made the appointment around her DF schedule? Your ex could clean up his language but I think that he feels this is between your DD and her friend to schedule. It was nice that your boss gave you the day off.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 4:32 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by Anonymous at 4:32 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by feralxat at 4:39 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by LostSoul88 at 4:40 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
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