going Anonymous on this due to mental health related issues that I don't really want spread around the site.
Lately I have just been feeling that no one likes me anymore, my friends seem (at least to me) like they are pulling away and distancing themselves. Sandy and I used to talk all the time, share everything, message each other at least once a day, but now it's like she is ignoring me. I mean, when I see her in chat she says hi but that's it. I sent her a message on FB three days ago and she never responded. When I go into the chat room it seems like everyone suddenly stops talking, and when I post something no one answers.
I know that I have been kind of depressed lately so I haven't been my normal cheerful self, I have been having trouble with my son who is ADHA. I'm usually the one in chat that others come to when they have problems, I sit there and listen to everyone complain about their issues, talk about how depressed they are, how pissed they are at their BF/hubby etc...and I try to comfort them and be a good friend. I always want to please people, but the one time I need help, that I am down, stressed and can't be "little mary sunshine" they all turn their backs on me! No one wants to hear my problems and when I suddenly can't handle their issues right now, well I'm no good for them anymore. Sometimes I know that my mind creates issues that aren't really true, I have abandonment issues and I do recognize that. like when someone says they are going to call me and they don't I may freak out and assume its cause they hate me when maybe they forgot...unfortunately the last three times this has happened with Sandy and she claims she got busy. So I was like, well if your that busy that you can't remember to call me when I'm sitting here waiting because you said that you would call at 8pm, then I guess I am too busy to meet you for lunch tomorrow, sorry. Find someone else to pay for your meal. So in a way I don't think I am imagining her using me and then ignoring me when my company doesn't suit her needs. I think that I am just so desperate to have friends and feel accepted that I take anyone's crap. All I actually want is just someone to actually like me and want to be around me and treat me like a person, half the time I just feel invisible. Do you think I'm over reacting or does it sound like its time to cut my losses and move on?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:44 PM on Jan. 7, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by hellokittykat at 7:00 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by older at 7:03 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by virginiamama71 at 6:48 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by KristiS11384 at 6:56 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by tessiedawg at 6:59 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by m-avi at 6:59 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Do you ever get out of the house and mingle with real people?
Answer by Anonymous at 6:46 PM on Jan. 7, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 2:29 AM on Jan. 8, 2013
Answer by PrettyLady80253 at 2:39 AM on Jan. 8, 2013
Next question overall
Would you have an issue with your husband/ boyfriend smoking marijuana ?