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...and he said the other day in a fit of rage that if I was coming between him and his kids I'd have to go. What in the actual f@ck?! We've been together for a year and I've dealt with his constant mood swings and horrible, violent temper. He's said numerous times after a meltdown that he was sorry, and that he needs mental help. Yes, I've stayed. His meltdowns have all occurred after arguing with his ex wife. When she gets mad, she will not let their kids come over for more than the court appointed every other weekend. When she's calm, they are here almost every day. Last week she went off griping about our "perfect marriage" & his "perfect wife" and decided that he couldnt see them all last week. She claims I'm trying to take her kids, but I've bent over backward to not step on her toes, as I was told by my MIL that she is unstable. So he flips out on me for I dont even know what! He was like a different, horrible person. I was in a choke hold. He has since apologized profusely and said it wasnt my fault, he didnt mean what he said. But why in the crap would he entertain the idea of divorcing me so he didnt have to argue with his ex? Is it the mental instability? Or is he waiting back with her? I'm freakin out here...
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