Wyr your husband walk away from you and the kids or he stays but decides to be a cross dresser ?

Because he found his true self?
I do not know what to tell you Gwen. This srt of question makes me sad for all parties. He probably doesn't know himself.
I know a cross dresser whose immediate family are just fine with it. His wife accepted his preferences and they stayed together and a happily married couple. Others don't. I do not know they answer.

Well, I suppose it would depend. Cross-dress publicly or privately? If it's just around the house where nobody will see, then I guess he could stay. Publicly, no. I will not set myself or my child up for that kind of stress and humiliation.

I just know I would not loan that bitch ANY of my clothes.

I would leave, I just couldnt handle it

lol @PartyGalAnne. so funny

As long as he was a good father and husband then the cross-dressing wouldn't bother me.

Cross dressing doesn't bother me, but could cause some issues for children. I'd have rules about it, to protect my kids from torment

Yeah, who knows, we might be able to share clothes, shoes, etc.... It could be kind of fun!

if he was hiding that
what else is he hiding
what closet door will open next

i would not stay in relationship

been there in a house with closet doors that appeared from nowhere- not a pretty sight
when you actually have to live it- many more would leave (imo)
different to live it than to think about what you would do

as long as its only cross dressing i dont think it would be enough for me to want to leave or have him leave. if he loved me and the kids just as much as he always has then i dont care what he wears. Yes, im attracted to him as he is now but im much more attracted to the person he is.. and i would want him to be happy with himself.. it would be an adjustment for sure but one im willing to work at.. and as far as the kids go.. i teach my kids tolerance. No matter what or who you are there are always going to be people happy to torment and tease.. My hope is to teach my kids to rise above that.. -- doesnt just go for my husband though.. if anyone of my family members including my kids cross dressed or were homosexual or whatever, id still just want them to be happy.