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Why is everyone so judgmental here? Aren't we all in this for the best interest of children?

Why is everyone so judgmental? Aren't we all in this for the best interest of children? Everyone seems to think they are the leading expert on adoption, and come off as know it alls... Why can we not all be supportive? Why can't we answer questions without being rude? Isn't this a place to educate ourselves and learn from each other?


Asked by MyPunkinPickle at 7:54 PM on Jan. 8, 2013 in Adoption

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Answers (15)
  • What are you on about?

    Also, it's CM. Always been that way, as long as I can remember anyway

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 7:56 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 8:28 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • What planet did you just come from, doll? Women are all that, and more. However, its the More part that brings us together. So someone disagreed, or said what you didn't want to hear? Big deal! That's life. I've fallen out with gals IRL or online, but I've also shared with those same gals. Ya not always gonna be on the same page.

    Answer by dullscissors at 8:05 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • Hi

    Answer by m-avi at 8:47 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 9:06 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • Most people aren't rude we just don't want to sugar coat the truth. We are big girls and should be able to handle the straight truth without worrying about offending someone or hurting their feelings. When we answer questions most of us can relate or have experienced something similar and know that hinting at the right answer won't get their point across.

    Answer by amandajoy21 at 7:58 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:12 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • There is no place on this planet where you can get a bunch of women in the same place w/out a little drama. I've been on this site since June, 2010 & have only had a handfull of issues. And since it's the internet, it's really not a big deal. So a stranger was rude, well, that's life - here or irl

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 8:17 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • by calling people judgmental, aren't you judging?

    Answer by feralxat at 8:26 PM on Jan. 8, 2013

  • This is a social networking site for women who happen to be mothers(to be)
    It's 1st and foremost about US,not about the kids
    check out how many questions are about kids vs. other things and you'll see

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:05 PM on Jan. 8, 2013