Hi! I am new on this site so this is only my second time writing a post. Back in April 2012 I met a very nice handsome man in the US Army who at the time was stationed for 6mos. where I live. We clicked and I hung out with him the whole time. I learned alot about him and he has infleunced me a ton! We talked alot about school and life. As the time got closer to his departure in Oct. it sunk in that this was serious/odd situation for me. Is our time done or will we be friends still? We talked about it and it was basically said we wanted to continue our friendship..but as far as a relationship he cant give it right now. Which is totally cool with me considering I recently before meeting him got out of one. He is in North Carolina where he resides. I really like him and think he likes me , he shows intrest ,he calls and texts and tells me where his latest deployment will be...he calls and we talk for 1-2 hrs....my thing is I know army relationships are tough ...but should I stick this out and see what it holds...i really like him .....idk....Answer Question
Answer by cassie_kellison at 12:31 AM on Jan. 9, 2013
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Answer by louise2 at 7:08 AM on Jan. 9, 2013
If it's just a friendship right now, keep it like that and still date others. If you aren't dating him or in a relationship, don't spend years waiting on him to feel like it's time to make things more serious. If you talk about being together (eventually), then I think you need to make a point to define what you have right now and be upfront and honest about your feelings. If you do decide to date others in the meantime, do not FB friend (or any other social media) any of your prospects until you are exclusive.
Answer by QuinnMae at 9:58 AM on Jan. 9, 2013