I don't have a "neon" sign on my forehead that says "Needs to be laid." I'm not a damsel in distress. I'm definitely not of those Edith Bunker types who waits on her man's every wishes. I've chosen to be platonic and am content with that.
I'm a 47 yr old single Mom who is strong, independent, attractive and speaks her mind. I dress conservatively or home bummy. I've gota lot of stresses but hey, I manage em one day at a time.
Still, what gives with the men these days who don't care what you're saying because all they're thinking is "Wonder how she'll be in bed?" Or, they find someway to try and get intimate without caring about whether you feel that way or not? I've made my feelings very clear on this and alotta men can't seem to handle rejection and they act like that skunk in Pepi La Phew except this kitty cat doesn't run!
Please don't try to tell me that I carry myself like a slut, or dress like one, or project
You're seen as a challenge! Men LOVE the chase...not so much the follow-up! Besides, eventhough you are not INTENTIONALLY sending out signals that you're looking for someone....confidence IS very sexy!
This article gives a little more insight to how a lot of women think...so I think the opposite is true when it comes to women--who for whatever reason are "spoken for!"
Answer by LoriKeet at 8:26 AM on Feb. 13, 2009
Answer by VaDivaMom at 8:05 AM on Feb. 13, 2009
AWW, I would never say those things to you or anyone else. Maybe where you are meeting these so called potential men isn't a good spot and just need to look elsewhere? I know a lot of people are skeptical of online dating sites but have you considered that if you are looking?
Answer by Christine0813 at 8:06 AM on Feb. 13, 2009
Answer by himnme at 8:19 AM on Feb. 13, 2009