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2 Bumps

Ok, feeling a bit stalked

went to library (by myself) two days ago
just to pick up some princess movies for my daughter

this guy, approaches me, turns out we went to same high school
after he said something, he looked slightly familair
so we chat some, he remembers tons of high school stuff, i remember very little
i am 47, he is 50, he was in my brothers grade
so, it was a nice chat...BUT
he asks if i want to go to museum sometime or out for fish fry...nice BUT
i am honest, say i do not date, i have a young child with autism, no sitter, and have not dated in two years
he asks for my number- i said no, and he persists, and to be polite i say, yes, you can give me yours
well, he just called me
not liking that he looked me up and called, and still will not take no for answer
i asked how he got my number??, he said you are in the book (i do not care if i am, i made it clear- that i was NOT giving him ok to call me - i did not give him my number) he continues on phone just now to ask if i wanted to go out this sunday. i tell him i have a young child and no sitter, he continues like i was not clear when i said "how did you get my number" and " i do not have a sitter, i do not date at this time"
he says, i will call some other time, i said no, i am not dating.
i had to say it again
then he asks if i remember him from high school (again- i am 47!! who the fuck cares about high school)
i said a bit, he says he looked in his yearbook and found me. i say..ok, he says did i look him up, i say, i do not have those anymore. (what the fuck??)
i got off phone, i think iwas as direct as possible without being too rude- as he was not taking hint- and he called me after i was very clear about not giving my number out
i think this is creepy
and the whole obession about high school when he is 50!! is weirder yet
he mentioned he lives a few blocks away
do i need to close my fricking curtains now



Asked by Anonymous at 8:58 PM on Jan. 9, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (17)
  • ^^ a gentle brush off:)
    And yes, i am a hopeless romantic- I am a Sag after all, lol!

    Answer by feralxat at 11:39 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • well hunney- sometimes opportunity Does come knocking at our door.
    I understand that you were clear about not wanting to date and I understand your reasoning but! you also know my opinion on dating

    besides if you do not get out every now and again and recharge you batteries-
    stop being the mom of an autistic child every now and again...

    Answer by feralxat at 9:04 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • Creepy

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 9:03 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • Yikes!
    Time to get a tazer !

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:04 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • Don't sell yourself short. You're quite attractive

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:44 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • you must be super puuuurty

    Answer by gwen20 at 9:03 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • ok feral- get your point
    he is 50 and asked me on phone tonight if i wanted to look at his yearbooks because he has all of his

    he is short, fat and not attractive- that is ok with me
    but he brought up high school a bunch at library, then calls me when i was clear i was not giving muber out and was not dating
    AND brings up high school stuff again over and over on phone tonight

    i am 47, he is 50
    and i was only in high school for 2 years
    i do not relive high school even in my dreams let alone every moment of my life

    i will date ... i promise you, i will be more than a mom of a child with autism
    but can i date an adult???

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:25 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • m not puuuurty
    in fact gwen20, i am kind of down right PAXY

    thanks for your input

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:27 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • Ok the high school thing.
    During my summer of "Yes" I reconnected with a friend from elementary/ middle school. All we had was those years to rebuild a friendship on.
    we reminisced about those old memories and they were a jumping off point to talk about out current lives, the things that happened in between and where we were going in the future.

    I am not saying date or even return this guys calls. I am saying, open your heart just a bit. You may be pleasantly surprised to the opportunities that await you.

    Answer by feralxat at 9:50 PM on Jan. 9, 2013

  • i find it kind of creepy if it persist i say you file harassment since its creepy... good luck with that creep

    Answer by mampanda0422 at 9:53 PM on Jan. 9, 2013