Ever been in a situation where you knew something that your friend needs to know but you don't know if you should tell them or not or when the right time to tell them is? ... confusing, let me explain and you tell me what you would do in this situation.
So, from New Year's Eve until about 3-4 days later, we had some friends of ours stay with us (Wife, Husband, and 4 year old daughter). They live pretty far out of town and his paycheck was delayed for a week due to the holidays. She was also having pregnancy issues, it being the end of her pregnancy, and he worried about her being alone so far from the hospital or anyone they know. So, we offered them a place to stay until his paycheck came in since gas was an issue for us as well (or I would have gone to her house while he worked).
Seemingly off subject for a minute: A month or two ago, my husband had a tooth pulled. They gave him 6 hydrocodone (spelling?) for pain when he left. He only ended up needing to use one of them. So, they've been in our medicine cabinet since (We haven't had a chance to dispose of them at our Sheriff's department medication dropbox, yet).
Well, the husband saw them while he was here looking for IBprofin for a headache. He then tried to get my husband to sell them to him. Of course, my husband refuses. So, it's been a few days since they've been here, almost a week now. DH noticed while looking for something in the med. cabinet tonight that the bottle didn't seem to have as much in it (5 should have been there). He looked and 2 were missing, leaving only 3. He thinks that the husband stole them.
My issue: I don't know if and when I should let my friend know 1. That he tried to buy them. 2. That 2 were missing when they left. I think she needs to know, but I don't know if she will take it as an afront. Another problem: I don't want to tell her right at the moment bc she just had her baby today! What do I do?!
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