She is far from starting to develop anything really, but we'll she asked for a bra like mommy when she was 2 then hasn't mentioned it until a couple weeks ago. Well a couple weeks ago she asked me if all girls wear bras? I said yes when you start to get boobs you will have to start wearing one. I a asked her why she asked that? She said because she wants a bra. She will be 8 in April. I don't remember how old I was when when I started to develop or got my first bra, but I do know I was 13-14 when I started my period. Why I said between 13-14 is cause I spotted at 13 two months before my birthday it was so light that it was only when I whipped. Do you even consider that a period? Then I skipped the next month then I started after my birthday it was heavier. Anyway, all week my daughter has been wearing her bathing suit top (it is one of those ones with the shorts and looks like tabletop) when I asked why she is wearing it she said she is wearing it for a bra lol. She wears it under her clothes even to school and to bed under her clothes. I mentioned it to daddy he was like she doesn't need a bra. I old him they have kids ones, but he still says no. My aunt says no because it might be pure pressure and if she does that she will grow'll w up to fast then want piercings and tattoos. I don't want to do it behind dhs back to let hwe have a bra. I mean I won't, but she really wants one too. I have mixed feelings about it. what are your thouguys or suggestions on the subject?
Answer by Bmat at 10:38 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:40 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
Answer by wendythewriter at 10:40 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
Something like this would be completely appropriate. Nothing wrong with what she wants. My DD is the same way and I got her some of these. The novelty has worn off. I don't make her wear them, but they are there if she wants one.
Answer by QuinnMae at 10:43 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
Answer by fiatpax at 10:49 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
No boobs, no bra. What is the point? Next she'll want high heels in 2nd grade, c'mon. Kids don't need to get everything they ask for or about. There are more important things to focus on like school work.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:49 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
Answer by missanc at 10:49 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 10:43 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
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Answer by cassie_kellison at 11:00 AM on Jan. 10, 2013
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