You're a fairl attractive 29 yr old single mom to a 4 yr boy. You've graduated college, have a bachelors degree and an ok steady job.
8 mons ago you started dating joe, who has 3 kids of his own. Recently you find out you're pregnant and joe doesn't want a kid right now. His reasoning is he doesn't want to start a relationship like this. He wants to move slow and get married. He already has 3 little ones and not finacially ready for another. ( he's in school for an advanced degree)
He wants you to have an abortion and plan kids in a year or 2 when the relationship is more steady. You don't want an abortion because the act of doing it is horrible. You both are not ready, but you can do it alone if you have to. He tells you if you keep the baby he will only be there financially and is gone but if you abort it he will be there and will feel the relationship is being forced because of the baby.
You're scared to be a single mom of two! Both will have separate fathers who are both not in either kids lives. You're scared to be judge Nd humiliated. But most scare of doing it all Alone.
Ladies, I need help!
Words of wisdom!
I have the appt for the abortiin scheduled next week and I don't want to do it.
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