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2 Bumps

Have you ever used anyone?

have you ever been used?

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Asked by lizzybee44 at 5:51 PM on Jan. 12, 2013 in Relationships

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  • For sex? Yes and yes

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:58 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • yes, i used my now husband.. lol back in highschool he was older and able to drive and i knew he liked me so i used to use him for rides places.. poor guy. he got me in the end though, as we've now been married for yrs and have a beautiful little family together

    Answer by nnh_mama at 5:59 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • sex, money, rides, anything. so this is common? i never have used anyone before and rarely have i been used. if i feel it from a person i cut them off immediately. but im miserable in my relationship so im thinking of using him until its convenient for me to cut him off officially. what a bitch i know

    Comment by lizzybee44 (original poster) at 6:05 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • of course to both.
    life is a game. play it.

    Answer by gwen20 at 6:15 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • Not intentionally. I have too much self-respect for that.

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 6:22 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • oh my husband knew he was being used but didnt care.. he liked me and hoped itd turn into more then just a friend relationship. and it worked lol aside from that i cant say ive used anyone for money or sex. Ive only been with two people sexually (including my husband) and money wise, id just feel too guilty.

    Answer by nnh_mama at 6:25 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • I think that some guys thought that they were using me for sex, but I was using them too. But other than that, no. I dont use people.

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 6:51 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • I am with butterfly except I personally have never used anyone, been used and it hurts.

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 7:43 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • Because he threw away the sauce from your roast.

    You're going to become a lesser person, consigning all ethics and morality to the waste basket of life.......because he threw away the sauce from your roast

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 8:08 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

  • I have never used anyone. A few people have used me for favors a lot of the time. Basically, they only call when they need something.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 8:12 PM on Jan. 12, 2013

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