my mom and i are close but she keeps hurting me. my sister (30) lives with my parents while her husband is deployed. her kids are 10 months & almost 3. she has been there this time since July. it is his second deployment.
my sister always makes sure to keep my mom busy by asking for constant help. my mom hasn't visited me in a long time due to my sis being there. well, my mom called last week and said she would come today and stay for a few days. so i called their home this morning to see what time they would arrive (she & my dad were coming). well, my dad says that they would ALL come around noon and that my mom wasn't staying because she had something to do Tuesday.
1. I didn't want my sister to come because MY KIDS deserve and WANT to see their grandma without their baby cousins monopolizing her!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. WTF. The thing my mom has to suddenly do Tuesday..you guessed it!!! she has to watch my sis's kids so my sis can go to a dance class.
I told my dad to FORGET IT. I didn't feel like seeing anybody today. This is NOT the first time my mom has blown us off when my sister needed her. My mom & sis are together everyday. My sis's kids get grandma everyday. Is a couple days too much to ask to have grandma here?
I am hurt and mad.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:12 PM on Jan. 13, 2013 in Relationships
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