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Do you think it's fair?

To keep having children when you know you can't afford it? Like if you can't afford food, would you ttc?


Asked by funlovinlady at 7:00 PM on Jan. 13, 2013 in Parenting Debate

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  • not fair, complete asshatery!!!!
    Any fucktard that does that needs their twats sewn shut and dicks cut off

    oh wait...did I go too far? Sorry
    eh, no I am not!

    Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 7:18 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • If you are on any kind of assistance then no, you shouldn't have more kids until you can live without it.

    Answer by kmath at 7:07 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • No, I don't think it is fair and I think it is highly irresponsible to try to conceive while unable to afford another child. It's not fair to the child, to the other siblings, to tax payers, etc. However, I have learned that life isn't fair.


    Answer by JeremysMom at 7:06 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • no its not. DH and i would love to have more kids, but we cant afford it (without giving up everything extra). it would be wrong of us to give up being able to provide for the kids we have now, just so i could satisfy my "i wanna baby" itch.

    Answer by okmanders at 7:26 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • Absolutely not fair! Not fair to the poor child either!

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 7:08 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • A person who is struggling to stay above the water or requires assistance to meet everyday needs should not be actively trying to conceive. That is just purely selfish and absolutely ridiculous.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 7:27 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • My cousin's best friend was on all forms of welfare,and said it was a good time to have #2 because it was "free" so why not? So we pay for her to make another kid because her husband is a POS loser who can't keep a job

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:37 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • Of course not. Not everyone is sensible, though.

    Answer by tessiedawg at 7:06 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • LOL! Damn luv!

    Feel better?

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 7:19 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

  • well PMS no I dont
    I am a product of those FUCKTARDS and being bounced from foster home to foster home is freaking AMAZING

    again not LOL
    but I stand by the fact that those fuktards dont need to procreate

    Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 7:23 PM on Jan. 13, 2013

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