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Is it ok to approach a guy that you're interested in? Or do you feel like if hes interested he would approach you?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:04 PM on Jan. 14, 2013 in Relationships

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  • Flirting is good, but don't throw yourself at him - that will scare him away :) Men like to be the ones in control, we are the ones who like to lure them in..good luck and have fun with it!

    Answer by madmueller at 1:05 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • Now days. I would approach him. If I could get my courage up.


    Answer by louise2 at 1:07 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • In this day and age is perfectly ok to approach someone that sparks your interest....go for it.

    Answer by older at 1:16 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • I would not approach a guy, but I have never had a problem letting a guy know I'm interested with a look and a smile

    Answer by missanc at 1:16 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • you can approach him but not like
    hey I wanna screw you LOL
    take it slow, maybe drop a hint with a small note etc.

    Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 1:17 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • Men are stupid. If you like one, go for it.

    Answer by dullscissors at 1:20 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • Relationships are started in all different ways. Do what feels organic to you.

    Answer by theMOMmission at 1:22 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • MOM, did you just get autocorrected??? Organic??? LOL

    do what feels right, but be slow and sorta teasing... make it fun!!

    Answer by Nimue930 at 1:32 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • It depends on how and where you know him from, work? I say wait for him, the local club? What does one have to lose?

    Answer by jerseydiva at 1:41 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

  • Sure!
    Guys like it if you put yourself out there. if you want to ask him out, go for it
    Sometimes they like to have the pressure taken off of them

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:47 PM on Jan. 14, 2013

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