My husband is a only one who is working he has his own business.
Im staying home and we have a 4 years old going to pre-k 3 times week.
My husband control money big time.he cut my credit card of limit $500
and he just rarely give cash and if i ask for it he start a screaming at me because i asked for it?
mean what if i need gas ,emergency,something what i can buy with CC?
He expect me to cook everyday ,clean the house and his mood god sake!
what ever is happening the day and working out for him who he need to put down,of course ME!
I m afraid to get ask money from him..
so i will not cook ?what about our daughter?
I been writing my resume ,but thinking this whole thing over, only i can get apart time job 3 times week if any or working at night?
Who is going to hire me?i thought iw ill work online but i don't know which site is a scam or real.
Top on that our marriage not a top notch either.
i do not know how to start what to do what about my daughter i can just put her in full time because his not going to pay for it.
and when kindergarten start would be able to get Job in this economy?
appreciated for all the answers!
Asked by Anonymous at 9:07 AM on Jan. 15, 2013 in Money & Work
Instead I would suggest taking some classes. Getting a better more focused education will allow you to be more independent later. Your DH sounds like he is very controlling and that's a way to keep you in your place.
As far as him taking things out on you verbally when things go bad at work, not that it's right but I don't think that's so uncommon (unless he is actually blaming you or making his negative behavior about you instead of his work). We always feel more comfortable sounding off to those closest to and most tolerant of us.
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