Ok I know my dh loves me and only wants me to do something with myself, I don't work I'm a SAHM but my kids are in school so I'm basically alone during the day unless my dh is home (he works weird hours).
Anyway this morning he was telling me why don't I take advantage of our little gym we have in our garage. We have a treadmill, an elliptical, and a bow flex. Well for some damn reason I don't. It's cold here and would much rather wrap myself up in a blanket with a cup of coffee and call it good ;)
He calls and asked what I was doing I told him I was watching the news he's like why don't you do that while working out, I'm like yeah your right we'll see. Then he calls me 3 hours later I'm laying down taking a nap.
He got upset with me.
See bc when he is off we go walking and sometimes a slight jog 3-4 miles but for me to say I'm gonna workout it is not in me.
What to do with this laziness. He is not ever lazy he's always working always up and ready and when he feels that slump coming around he drinks a 5hr energy (I personally hate those) but anyway he's the one that gets us moving...ugh! Venting....thanks! Your thoughts PLEASE!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:28 PM on Jan. 15, 2013 in Diet & Fitness
Answer by Dardenella at 12:37 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
He married you to grow old with you. Not to watch your health diminish before his eyes and to bury you. It only takes a few weeks to really get into a habit of doing something. Give it a try and see how good it makes you feel. If it doesn't then maybe tell him that.
Answer by QuinnMae at 12:42 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
Answer by charlotsomtimes at 12:44 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
Answer by missanc at 12:55 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
Has he always been like this to "your laziness" (in his eyes)?
Answer by louise2 at 1:14 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
Answer by LeJane at 1:14 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
Answer by idareyou at 3:49 PM on Jan. 15, 2013
Answer by booklover545 at 12:18 PM on Jan. 23, 2013
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