and today I called 911 on my husband. He had knocked my glasses off my face and the when i was entering our bedroom he shoved me into the halll. I am not injured or brusied. I did not get in his face, touch or even yell at him. I was trying to avoid the agument, yet he kept saying stuff to try and get me worked up, but i wouldnt. I have been telling him the last several months how i dont like drama, and i refuse to continue tthis while 90 percent of the time hes mad and not talking to me. Many years ago at time s our agruing became physciall, however, i never called the police. Today, i did because he thinks i would not call but i had to show him no more. Now he is in jail. And will be there a few because he had a warrant that i did not know about, for driving on a suspended license and fta to work project! I dont know what is going to happen. Should i plan on moving out? Its hard emotionally to, but mostly i am broke, dependent on husbnd. Any comments, etc?
Answer by NannyB. at 9:41 AM on Jan. 17, 2013
Answer by hellokittykat at 6:43 AM on Jan. 17, 2013
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Answer by hellokittykat at 6:24 AM on Jan. 17, 2013
Answer by hellokittykat at 6:33 AM on Jan. 17, 2013
Answer by hellokittykat at 6:42 AM on Jan. 17, 2013
I'm sorry this has to be hard. You shouldn't feel guilty these were his choices. However you're going to have to find someway to create income for yourself. You're not alone there are many women who have been in the same situation and there is help available. Try to find organizations in your area that can offer you assistance while you get on your feet.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:44 AM on Jan. 17, 2013
At the very least open a checking account in your name only. Then try this link http://www.positivelyminnesota.com/JobSeekers/Find_a_Job/Targeted_Employment_Services/Homemakers_Returning_to_Work.aspx# if you get to keep the house rent rooms to other ladies in your situation. do you qualify for SS?
Answer by sunshine196 at 5:10 PM on Jan. 17, 2013
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