Ladies, if he will lie over things that truly do not matter then DO NOT marry him. Example: gives girl ring, she says yes. Girl takes ring to be cleaned is told stone is loose but that their jeweler can not fix it or clean it. To ask where it was purchased and take there. girl tells fiance stone is loose, he throws a shit fit blaming her and saying how expensive this ring was etc. Girl feels bad but tells him she didnt do anything to it so he needs to chill.
contacts a jeweler friend who says bring it in. ring is the cheapest plating you can get and the stone is fake. So, girl is really not mad that it is fake she could careless about the ring itself. She is mad tha the had the nerve to be hateful about it and told her it was expensive.
jewler says the ring was actually a QVC item that went for about 200.00, no receipt so now girl feels foolish for showing it to so many and now has no ring to wear because it cant be repaired. Guy says pick out what you want he will buy....a little to late to be buying a real one. girl still loves and will marry but we feel it will be a busted marriage before they even say i do :(
what you you say or do in this situation if it were your child? We have remained supportive but our hearts are not truly in it anymore. we realize not everyone can afford a wonderful engagement ring but he knows her well enough to know that she would have been happy with the smallest of them.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:50 PM on Jan. 18, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by staciandababy at 6:54 PM on Jan. 18, 2013
Answer by 3libras at 6:55 PM on Jan. 18, 2013
Answer by NannyB. at 7:27 PM on Jan. 18, 2013
This situation isn't about the ring, it's about the dishonesty and from your later post I would say it's about the dysfunction of his drinking as well.
If it were my child, I would tell her that I love her no matter what and that she always has a place to stay if she needs it. If she asked me if the lying bothered me I would be honest and tell her that it is a huge concern. Unfortunately, we all have to live and learn from our own mistakes.
Answer by QuinnMae at 7:28 PM on Jan. 18, 2013
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