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I have a drunk/high loser biological father that will at some point drink/drug himself to death. His parents are both gone. I am wondering what will happen once he dies. He never supported my sister or I financially, we never had a relationship with him. He molested my brother (not his child) so my mom kept us away from him. I know I will be called when he dies and expected to go to his funeral. And will be guilted by my aunt to pay for his services. Honestly, I do not want to go to the services for someone him. He is not my dad, he is a sperm donor at best. Is there anyway to get a life insurance policy to pay for his final expenses? Do they even write policies for drug users?
One aunt feels really badly about what kind of person he is and that he never supported us, the other sister is a greedy biotch and just doesn't want to shell out any money, ever.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:21 AM on Jan. 21, 2013 in Money & Work
Answer by PMSMom10 at 12:27 AM on Jan. 21, 2013
Answer by PMSMom10 at 12:35 AM on Jan. 21, 2013
Answer by Ginger0104 at 12:43 AM on Jan. 21, 2013
I doubt an Insurance Company would issue him a policy. It would cost more than it was worth. Refuse to pay for any of his Funeral. Let his Sisters figure it out. Speak your mind then hang up the phone. You are not obligated. Forget feeling guilty. Did he feel guilty about what he did to all of you? Let him sleep in the bed he made.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 12:13 PM on Jan. 21, 2013
Answer by jeanclaudia at 2:48 PM on Jan. 21, 2013
Answer by Nimue930 at 6:13 PM on Jan. 21, 2013
Answer by booklover545 at 12:55 PM on Jan. 22, 2013
Answer by SassySue123 at 7:41 PM on Jan. 22, 2013
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