First, THIS IS NOT A TROLL POST so save your finger-pointing. It's a serious question and mature answers of all kinds are welcomed and appreciated.
I am asking this for a friend who is not a member here and is afraid to talk about this to anyone but me. She and her DH have had bad marital problems for the last couple of years. They fight, and she really feels like she is no longer in love with or attracted to him. They have not been intimate in about a year.
She recently discovered that he had used at least once, and possibly more, her vibrator. (In his butt, in case I need to spell it out) She was horrified and disgusted. She feel sort of confused about her repulsion because she is not homophobic at all, but she just thinks there is something sort of wrong about this. He insists he doesn't have gay tendencies and that it just feels good, most men do it, and that she is being close-minded. She is now even more repulsed at the thought of having sex with him than she was before.
What are your opinions on men using devices in their asses? Gay, not gay, normal? Something to be concerned over? Thanks in advance.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:56 PM on Jan. 23, 2013 in Relationships
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Answer by vampporcupine at 8:16 PM on Jan. 23, 2013
Quite frankly more men would probably do it but they are afraid of the stigmatization that goes with it and think that it's considered "gay" and if they do it it'll mean they're "Gay" which as PGA stated is NOT the case. as "gay" or homosexual refers to attraction of the same gender not how they get off.
Answer by KristiS11384 at 8:16 PM on Jan. 23, 2013